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Monday, September 24, 2007

Some more defenitions of love

nowadays, the only difference I feel is that we move on if we know that love is not ours. Love though an abstract feeling has so many feelings attached to it. We feel beautiful in love, we want the time to stand still when we are in love (I am talking about the love towards a particular guy or gal). We like to spend all our free time with them, if not possible then talk all the while with them (with huge phone bills).
Next time, you say I love you…. think twice whether you really do…or is it that we love to be in love?

Well, different people think different things about love.They may express it in their own way.But the way i see it, luv is a feeling that can't be expressed in simple words.Like u cant explain why do you feel hungry,angry etc.Still, if love has to be defined, i will define it like this : love is kind, it aint blind, it is a relation, of hearts and mind.wen ur heart beats,think its the perfect sign.Still, its difficult to find, the one thats purely mine.....Thats love.

love does not seem nearly so arcane and mysterious as most people try to make it. The reason why it's so difficult to come up with a single, all-encompassing definition for the term "love" is that the term is vague. It's not a single emotion, but instead a genre of emotional states, each state being associated closely with other emotions besides the love itself.

The reason why we'd say "I love you" to our mothers as well as our significant others is that, quite simply, we're talking about completely different emotional states that both happen to be defined under that great genre we call love. Quite a few people love their pets as well; it's just another state that falls under the larger genre.

Even romantic love specifically does not necessarily define only one state; it is a sub-genre of love, including several different emotional states, some of which are felt in combination and some which appear to be mutually exclusive.

We as humans try very hard--understandably so--to define and classify our emotions. The problem is that we often forget that these emotions are not always mutually exclusive; it is entirely possible--and even probable from time to time--to feel more than one thing at the same time. The same holds true for love. I think it is for this reason that my girlfriend is both my lover and my best friend. I am attracted to her, certainly, but while I do most definitely love her in a romantic sense, I also love her in terms of respect and admiration for a highly intelligent mind. I love her as the person who is always there to offer help when I need it, and as the friend whom I just love to hang out with because her company is fun. Just about all of these forms of love can be felt separately, without one or more of the others being present, but rather than trying to describe everything at once, I simply say that I love my girlfriend. It's when we try to delve into the details that the combination often confounds our attempts to create a single definition.

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